(The following article comes from an unlikely contributor on our staff. He is a recently-turned 40, white male, in an interracial marriage. He has a great wife, very pretty; who is genuinely liked by all of us here. This is sort of personal.)
I suppose it was inevitable.
Turning 40. I didn't know what to expect. Other than, of course, the reminder that comes in the mail about getting your prostrate checked. (laughs)
As a couple months passed, I'm not sure if it was a coincidence or not, but I was losing...my mojo!
I have an attractive wife; beautiful, brown skin, curvy, and well-preserved, who is typically ready, willing, and able to spoil me in the bedroom - so no changes there.
I've been secretly working out a bit more, but nothing too strenuous. No, I am not any any medications and I eat sensibly.
So, what was it?
I admit, I have been throwing my interests into work, our kids, the stock market, blogging, etc.
I discovered I was getting more satisfaction from a popular blog article I wrote, a good day in the stock market, or one of the kids getting an A on their test...than a hot, passionate "session" with my wife?! Sounds crazy, doesn't it?
Was I become more absorbed in these things because I was merely running from the obvious?
I had never been that sexually demanding. 2-3 times the week was the norm. What I gave up in quantity, I made up in quality. Now? More like 2-3 times a month! For some women, this would come as a sign of relief. But, not for my wife. She hasn't said anything, but she may be becoming concerned.
Suddenly, "going to bed" has been more about pursuing a good night's sleep than anything else.
Has this happened to you too? What should I do?
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