Cupcake of the Week: So Sexy Solei

Cupcake of the Week: So Sexy Solei

*So Sexy Solei Measurements
*So Sexy Solei Bio

Height:                5' 4"

Weight:               135 lbs

Measurements:    36-24-40 (Damn!)

Shoe size:          8

Hair color:        Brown

Hair length:      Long

Eye color:         Brown

Ethnicity:         Black

Skin color:        Brown

Age:                  23

Location:          Long Beach

Solei, Born in Los Angeles County and family moved to Moreno Valley, CA. Growing up in a small community and also going to private school caused me to struggle with my self-esteem. So when people would approach me about modeling I never really took it seriously. After working at Universal Studios for a few years and my friend Arron bothering me about modeling it had the wheels spinning in my head.

"When I moved to Florida, I was aproached about doing photo's. When I met Patrick Adams From two Star Studios things began to change. After my first shoot with him people began taking more interest in me. Since then all the right pieces have been falling into place, and now everything is moving so fast I can't wait to see where it all takes me."

Says Solei:

-- I hope to one day be a household name I would love to further my modeling and also one day persue acting.....stay tuned!

"I have a very athletic physique due to my days running track."

"The combination of that conditioning and my genetics gives me some very UNREALISTIC measurements":

"Im 5'4" and currently a 'D-cup', however, I used to be a 'DD-cup'. Most people online see my pictures and think that my body is a result of clever retouching via photoshop. I just want to let you all know that I am 100% all natural hence the tag line "Unbelievably Real". For those that don't believe please feel free to check out videos of me or come to an upcoming event and see for yourself."

So Sexy Solei

I'm 40 Years Old! What Happened To My Penis?

(The following article comes from an unlikely contributor on our staff. He is a recently-turned 40, white male, in an interracial marriage. He has a great wife, very pretty; who is genuinely  liked by all of us here. This is sort of personal.)

I suppose it was inevitable.

Turning 40. I didn't know what to expect. Other than, of course, the reminder that comes in the mail about getting your prostrate checked. (laughs)

As a couple months passed, I'm not sure if it was a coincidence or not, but I was losing...my mojo!

I have an attractive wife; beautiful, brown skin, curvy, and well-preserved, who is typically ready, willing, and able to spoil me in the bedroom - so no changes there.

I've been secretly working out a bit more, but nothing too strenuous. No, I am not any any medications and I eat sensibly.

So, what was it?

I admit, I have been throwing my interests into work, our kids, the stock market, blogging, etc.

I discovered I was getting more satisfaction from a popular blog article I wrote, a good day in the stock market, or one of the kids getting an A on their test...than a hot, passionate "session" with my wife?! Sounds crazy, doesn't it? 

Was I become more absorbed in these things because I was merely running from the obvious?

I had never been that sexually demanding. 2-3 times the week was the norm. What I gave up in quantity, I made up in quality. Now? More like 2-3 times a month!

For some women, this would come as a sign of relief. But, not for my wife. She hasn't said anything, but she may be becoming concerned.

Suddenly, "going to bed" has been more about pursuing a good night's sleep than anything else.

Has this happened to you too? What should I do?

Which Black Women Are OK For White Men To Date?

You have to love Interracial Love Magazine. No other magazine truly gives you a perspective on interracial dating from a woman’s side… but also from the man’s!

Only Interracial Love Magazine truly brings you the heat!

Being white carries an enormous burden in dating sistas. For Caucasian men, how do we know which black women are available for dating? (Is there like a secret handshake or something?) And how can black women identify which white men are into them?

Here’s the answer. It doesn’t matter! Why? Because ALL black women potentially could be your girlfriend. Must black women always have to declare their stance on interracial dating to be “in the clear” for you to approach? When a white woman rejects you, you rarely come to the conclusion it is your color. You just weren’t “her type.” So, if a black women turned you down, would you brush it off as her not having an interest in dating white men? Think about it. You just because you adore black women does that mean you are attracted to all of them?

This author's take - getting personal

Me? I stay clear of black women with a history of dating white men. It’s just not for me. I want to target a black woman who would never consider dating outside her race. Black women who have adopted characters and traits that they perceive makes them more marketable to white men will be disappointed when they see that I have different tastes than the "everyday white guy".

Like what? I love soul food. I love wide hips and a fat, round ass. I love weave. I can dance. I love soul and R&B. (From Mary Wells, to the Isley Brothers, to Luther, to Phyllis, to Anita, to Dionne Warwick, to the SOS Band! I confess, I love falsetto soul!)  My point is that I have already been exposed to years of black culture and nuances. I don't have those awkward moments of cultural indifference that most white men are supposed to have on a daily basis.

My pursuit of black booty has either changed me or allowed me to be the person I really am. Either way, you won’t get the chance to experience white culture with me like you could with a typical white man. I’m too black! (Laughs) But, not in a "wigger" way. More of in a sophisticated, classy way.

Now I know there are many conventional black women who are not attracted to white men or the concept of interracial dating. I can respect that. But would you be offended if a white male showed a romantic interest you? Of course you wouldn’t! And I am willing to bet that many black women have never been approached by a potential suitor of the “melanin-challenged” persuasion (white). More black women could possibly succumb to the advances of white men if we were more aggressive in that aspect, right?

The reality, for most of you white guys, is that you’ll never know the pleasures of interracial dating because dating to you consists of a mouse and keyboard. If the internet is your only access to black women, you are seriously limiting the dating pool.

Look, I’m not going to tell you that I endorse all things black. But, we have to “come out of our shell” if we want exposure. Face it, our cities are very segregated. If you wanted, you could easily live out your days with as little contact to black people as you wanted. If you have a true desire to meet black women, you’ll have to get into their world. You’ll need to know where they party, where they shop, where they eat, and where they go to church.

How else will you ever find your black queen? 

Are White Men Intimidated by Serena Williams?

So, what do you think?   

 

Are white men intimidated by Serena Williams?

"I think overall white men are less attracted to African American women because they tend to be intimidated by us. Due to myths and stereo-type most “white”men think they cannot sexually satisfy a black women, due to their own perceived “short-comings”."

"They tend to view us as nympho-maniacs and therefore insatiable….This of course is based on the stereo-type that most black men have at least a nine inch penis and this is what we are suppose to be use to."

"I think it is stereo-types like these amongst others that tend to have white men frozen in fear regarding black women…pity though…they know not what they have missed out on."

White men,  say it isn't so! 

Also Try:  Are White Men Afraid of Buffie the Body?