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Why Black Women Do Not Get The Job



Today is a landmark post on Interracial Love Magazine. We have been fortunate to have a Senior Recruiting Manager for a nationally-known staffing agency discuss some obstacles that black women have in entering the workforce.

The Recruiter has asked that his name and his corporation's name be withheld, and we are willing to be gracious in honoring that request.

Since Interracial Love Magazine's audience may be predominantly made up of Black and to a lesser degree, Hispanic women, this article is directed mainly for your benefit; although these characteristics definitely exist amongst many other races and ethnicities. 

From our interview, these are some of the highlights that were shared.

Why Black Women Do Not Get The Job 

1) Late For the Interview 

Typically, most requests for interviews will be handled at least 72 hours prior to the event. You would be surprised to the number of women who arrive late or do not arrive at all.

What to do: If you are going to arrive late: Call (Common Courtesy)
If you can not make the scheduled appointment: Call to reschedule

You will not always be guaranteed an opportunity to reschedule, but your chances are vastly improved as opposed to failing to do so.

2) Inappropriately Dressed

Most staffing organizations are very concerned regarding the quality of candidate that may need to be interviewed directly before a client. You must be dressed in professional attire.

This Recruiter can recall many occurrences of (black) women arriving for a position in clothes that did not fit (too low-cut, too much gut, length was too short, littered with baby milk or pet hair, etc.)

What to do: Invest in 2 good sets of business suits for women. Protect your garments in sealed containers. Professionally dry clean them when applicable.

Many agencies have funding to assist you in acquiring the right outfit for an interview. Take advantage of it.

3) The Interview 

Even the most outgoing and outspoken black woman falls victim to the dreaded interview! Her confidence level mysteriously disappears and this makes for a bad impression.

Eye contact is non-existent, answers are too short, there is a lot of fidgeting and nervousness, and we can tell how uncomfortable you are in a formal business setting.

On occasion, bad grammar is present. 

What to do: Overcome your lack of confidence. You must believe in yourself! You must convince yourself that you deserve to be there and you deserve this position. If you do not believe this, the interviewer won't either.

Look your interviewer in the eye. Sit straight. It's OK to laugh and smile during your interview. Win him/her over with your dazzling personality. If you are interviewing directly with the client of a staffing agency, you may be working directly under the person interviewing you for many years to come. Make it a positive experience.

And if you are concerned about your responses, there are many resources online that can help coach you to help develop the best responses. No answer is perfect, but being prepared will make you appear to respond naturally.

Oh, and please TURN OFF YOUR CELL PHONE!

4) The Interview, Part II 

During many interviews, this Recruiter can recall several instances of very personal information being disclosed.

Everything from being on welfare, being homeless, to smoking marijuana many years ago, to having a boyfriend/husband in jail, to having a history of sexual harassment, to having many children at a young age, to dropping out of college, to making mistakes, etc. 

What to do: Do not ever share these personal aspects of your life during an interview. The interviewer is determining whether you are someone of strong moral character and integrity, that your personal life can support a full-time commitment to this position, and that you do not pose a threat to the business.

It is either illegal or unnecessary to respond to questions that inquire about your age, how many children you have, and what your "significant other" does for a living. The questions you respond to should have a direct relevance to the position you are applying for. 

The business world takes claims of sexual harassment very serious. Being a victim of sexual harassment is not your fault. Although having a history of submitting sexual harassment claims causes a great deal of uneasiness and concern. It also sheds insight in your interaction between your male counterparts.

5) Sex and Booty 

It is not uncommon during an interview for a candidate to divulge that she was an exotic dancer (stripper) or in some form or fashion, associated with the sex industry.

How much can I discover about you from YouTube, Twitter, and Facebook? 

Remember that booty-shakin' video you did 2 years ago, with almost a million views?

Remember those tweets between friends...what were you really saying? You know, about staying out until the club closed and finding some excuse not to go into work the next morning.

And your Facebook account, what groups are you apart of? Why do you have all these pics of you in short skirts and booty shorts? Not to mention the list of men making comments - of which you responded: "So, you like what you see, huh?"

Is the image you want to express to a Recruiter? Yeah, we didn't think so.

In closing, it's not the fact you were Black that did not get you the job. Quite the opposite, in fact. Organizations are desperately trying to "diversify" their staff.



To be considered a professional, you must act accordingly. No one said you can't have your fun, but do this apart from the nosy, prying eyes of the HR department. 

I hope this helps. See you at an interview soon.

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Cupcake of the Week: Lexi Cruz


Cupcake of the Week : Lexi Cruz!
 
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Performer AKA      Lovely Lexi, Lexi
Birthday    August 12, 1984
Astrology    Leo
Birthplace    San Diego, California
Years Active    2003-2009
Ethnicity    Black
Nationality/Heritage    American
Hair Color    Black
Measurements    34C-26-38 (Damn!)
Height    5 feet, 2 inches (157 cm)
Weight   145 lbs (66 kg)
Tattoos    "Red Bone" and cartoon on small of back; Front of right upper leg
Non-Ear Piercings    Navel; Tongue; Lower Lip
Website    http://www.myspace.com/sexylexione



Lexi Cruz was born on August 8, 1984 in San Diego, California. At 5’2 145lbs, her measurements are 34C-26-38. She has a tattoo of “Red Bone" and a small cartoon on her back. She also has a tattoo on the front of her right upper leg. And she has a navel and tongue piercing.



In 2003 she entered industry and since then, she has amassed over 50 titles, most of which are ass fetish scenes.



Lexi has a nice round ass, smooth, thick thighs, and ample breasts. Overall, Lexi has a gorgeous face and beautiful smile.



Among other porn starts of category (ebony/big ass), she is one that you will remember. We'd like to see her doing more interracial films - as this niche of white male / black female films, we believe,  will continue to be the largest growing segment in the adult movie industry.


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Craig's List, Yahoo Chat, Twitter, and a Cell Phone - The Tools of a Cheater?!

Prior to the internet, cheaters began to make the most of the technology they had.

Remember the pager?

This handy device now made it possible to reach your partner 24-7. Codes such as *911 and *69 had a special meeting!
The pager era quietly faded and we were led into a new era of technology: The Cell Phone!


With the cell phone, more possibilities were created. You could now reach your "forbidden fruit" any time of the day without having to wait for that person to call you like during the pager days. You could also hide the gender of a stored number. The name on the caller ID can now read Leroy as opposed to who it really is, LeToya! And if your girlfriend/boyfriend/spouse got a hold of the phone, there is nothing they can do to snoop on you. Why? Because you locked it! Yes!

In the days before social media, we had a reliable standby, Chat! You could be in multiple rooms in Yahoo and MSN. If you remember some of the early days in chat, the atmosphere was more intimate and relaxed. Just the right opportunity to network with dozens of potential candidates.

As chat slowly began to become the stomping ground of online predators, perverts, deviates, and sex bots, a new opportunities were on the horizon... Like Craig's List!

Not only could you place anonymous ads, if things got too slow in the romance department, there were always the ladies under "Adult Services" offering their services.


All these choices were great. But, you needed a larger audience. You needed something more convenient.

Welcome to Social Media: Twitter and Facebook! 


Where else did you have the convenience to create multiple accounts and fake profiles in complete anonymity? Where else could you chat via Facebook or tweet under the guise of working, when you were actually reaching out to your paramour?

So, good luck trying to catch your love one "slipping."

But, sometimes, the evidence could be right under your nose!



Have you read their blog? The answer could be right there. Many blogs are not created for the purpose of being the next ProBlogger, CopyBlogger, or even SourceBlogger; but merely as an outlet to channel their lives. Intimate details of chance encounters and heated rendezvous fill page after page. Didn't they tell you they had a blog? You dismissed it, didn't you? I'd look into it!


These days, in reality, if one wants to cheat, they will - with or without online advertising, chat rooms, or social media.

How much do you know about your partner? How much uninterrupted internet access do they have in a given day? How frequently do they use social media sites like Twitter and Facebook? And most importantly, do they make it easy for you to monitor their social media interactions?

No doubt it is become more challenging to attain truth and clarity in your relationships. You will have to rely on your gut instincts and intuition even more than ever. In addition, you must be more selective in screening a potential love interest.

Even now, more than ever!


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